Memorial for a porn pioneer…

Last night I went to the memorial for Candida Royalle, the actress and filmmaker who started the couples erotica genre back in the mid-1980s and helped kickstart the whole feminist porn movement. She died in early September at age 64 of ovarian cancer.

Here’s the program from the memorial, unfortunately a little crumpled because I kept it in my overcoat while trying to juggle a plate of food and a glass of wine after the service…


The photo on the program is by Daniel Nicoletta.


Many people wore red, because that was Candida’s favorite color. I don’t have much red in my wardrobe, so I went to a souvenir shop near Times Square where I knew they sell inexpensive ties of many colors, including red.

There was a potluck assortment of food afterward, so I brought a box of chocolate covered cherries, since those also are red and a particularly voluptuous treat that seemed appropriate in memory of a woman celebrated for her love of sensuality.

She loved tomatoes—she even sang a song about them—which were passed out at the end of the service. Quite tasty.

Candida certainly was a very accomplished and energetic woman, and with the mourners like porn legends Annie Sprinkle and Vanessa Del Rio filling Judson Memorial Church in Greenwich Village, it was overflowingly obvious she had an amazing gift for friendship too. I’m sorry I didn’t get to know her better; I only knew her as a professional acquaintance, running into her at events like screenings or, last year, at the memorial for another XXX icon, Gloria Leonard. I did note, however, that whenever our paths crossed, Candida had the remarkable ability to make you feel she was really glad to see you, and valued even a few moments of your presence. That’s quite a gift.

As her friends spoke their remembrances—people such as Annie, Veronica Vera, Veronica Hart, writer Ariel Hart, and her close friend and production associate Michele Capozzi—I found myself astounded that with all her busy filmmaking and sex toy designing and sinematic entrepreneurship, she had the ability to make so much space in her life for other people. Clearly she was one of those unique individuals who can cram into her allotted time on this crazy planet experiences and relationships that would take most average human beings three or four lifetimes to encompass.

As we of the first generation of legal porn creators, those of us who started in the 1970s when the obscenity laws relaxed, begin to age, illness and death become inevitable visitors, as to all people. But sometimes I feel in a kind of silly, post-adolescent way, “Wasn’t porn supposed to keep us young and strong forever?” Porn, or erotica if you will, has a unique “fountain of youth” quality whether you create it in film or writing or art, or bring it to life on screen by having the sex yourself;  and I think porn fans feel that eternal youthfulness in it, too. I think that’s certainly one reason why I continue to enjoy writing it and indulging myself in a young manhood that may only exist in my mind, but is certainly vivid enough as it parades across my imagination and comes alive in the words on my computer screen.

Rest in peace, Candida Royalle, aka Candice Marion Vadala. For more about her life and films, check out her site here.


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She makes him THE slave in her life!

I’ve been really busy writing new stories the last few months, and hot on the high heels of my last ebook, RULE BY CLEAVAGE (see the previous post), I’ve just published yet another femdom novella on Amazon: HIS URGE TO SERVE.

In one scene, mighty Marina picks up the almost-naked Shep and flings him onto a couch!

In one scene, mighty Marina picks up the almost-naked Shep and flings him onto a couch!

The beginning of this story just came to me one morning as I sat down and imagined a beautiful girl named Marina moving into a new apartment. I pictured her vividly as a tall, strapping gal in a snug cashmere sweater, tight skirt, sheer nylons, and black pointy heels, her ponytail bouncing this way and that as she orders the moving men around, while my submissive male hero Shep watches from the hallway as he waits for an elevator.

Marina notices Shep and sends him on an errand, soon enough revealing that she knows a lot about him and has decided to make him her slave! Lest that seem too “easy” a set-up for a story, Marina has a good explanation for how she knows about him and why she has selected him. I always try to make even the most wild situations believable. At least somewhat! ;)

The story really started writing itself, and I knew I’d need a cover illustration soon enough. Going to my favorite stock photography house,, I found pictures of the perfect model by a photographer named “ammentorp” whose portfolio you can see here and whose images embodied just the look I’d imagined for Marina. Usually it works the other way around, and I write the story with a certain picture in mind; this time, I found the picture after the character was described and well underway.

So please go to the U.S. Amazon store here (or the Amazon store in your country) and check out a free sample of the ebook to see if your own fantasies merge with Shep’s as he gets to explore HIS URGE TO SERVE with this incredible take-charge female! We should all be so lucky! :) :) :)


Posted by on November 17, 2015 in, ebooks, Erotica, New York City


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Foolish mortal! NOBODY can resist Yolanda’s cleavage!

In a burst of fiction-writing energy that’s been going on since August, right on the heels of Darva Chan, Cruelty Queen of the Piano (see my previous post), I just completed and published yet another new femdom novella:

Her look of haughty indifference above that plunging line of cleavage got my imagination throbbing!

Her look of haughty indifference above that plunging line of cleavage got my imagination throbbing!


Yolanda Thumm is on the prowl for a susceptible breast-man and finds one in Orwell Jarvis, an unassuming office administrator who quickly becomes her frenzied cleavage worshipper. Yolanda’s plan of seduction includes wearing her blouses open as deeply as possible, or low-cut dresses that show off her 36D bosom and make it almost impossible for Jarvis to think of anything but her alluring breasty presence. Twisting him around her little finger, she has him do all sorts of things to prove his dedication and adoration of her cleavage…and his utter willingness to be a “boob for her boobies”!

She has him take her out for expensive dinners and then to the ATM machine for cash presents. He can no more resist handing over the money she demands than he can stop himself from delirious bouts of wanking when he’s not with her. He knows that getting into a “findom” (financial domination) situation can be dangerous, but with Yolanda’s relentless teasing talk and cruel manipulations of his lust, he becomes an eager puppet who will do whatever she commands to be her cleavage slave. Wait till you see what she has him do in the middle of a midtown Manhattan steakhouse!

Like my previous story about Darva Chan, RULE BY CLEAVAGE was inspired by a luscious photo, this one by the photographer “xalanx” from the stock agency; you can see his portfolio here. So check out this new femdom novella in seven exciting chapters, over 13,000 words in 41 pages of erotic entertainment! It’s available at Amazon US here as well as Amazon worldwide.


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Darva Chan, Cruelty Queen of Classical Piano, is here!

Usually I write directly on the computer, but in August and September I spent a lot of time working outdoors, carrying a notebook to the park to enjoy the summer weather. And when my new femdom story started taking shape in that notebook, I realized it was so visceral that I had to write it completely by hand first, to feel the passion of the imagined moment transmitted from my fingers through my pen to the paper…

I think writing by hand is a way the writer can feel as if he or she is “drawing” the story. You can glimpse what the story physically feels like through the scrawled words…

The hastily scrawled words reflect the urgency of the slave's emotions as he gets strapped.

“He didn’t want to run away, but take everything this beautiful amazing female creature would dish out.” The hastily scrawled words reflect the urgency of the slave’s emotions as he gets strapped!


But this story started in an image, inspired by a picture by the photographer “bloodua” at the stock agency (see his portfolio here) that I kept thinking about for months, wondering who the young lady would represent in my fiction-writing mind. All I knew was that she would be a classical pianist, and into femdom.

Or, as I put it in my description of the ebook on Amazon:

Darva Chan is a gorgeous, haughty, and wealthy Chinese-American girl in New York City who desires a career as a concert pianist–and then discovers the pleasures of sexual domination over men.

She decides to link her virtuosity at the keyboard to her budding skills at spanking, whipping, and verbal abuse–and makes plans to go on tour as The Femdom Goddess of the Piano!

She turns a website writer named Jason into her groveling slave as she prepares to debut her new dominatrix/pianist persona with a performance of a famous piece she has newly dubbed “The Femdom Sonata.” Jason, in awe of her Asian allure and great talent, is willing to do whatever necessary to be near Mistress Darva: to sleep in a cage, to scrub her toilet, or to become her humiliated creampie cuckold. But then he finds something he CANNOT do for his mistress, even as she plunges him deeper and deeper into submissive degradation. Will Mistress Darva give her awestruck new slave a break so he can keep on serving?

That’s what I dreamed up out of this incredible picture, so I hope you’ll read and enjoy my new 45-page novella…



It’s available on Kindle at Amazon stores worldwide!


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Enjoy my blog? Savor my erotica!

If you enjoy my blog, try one of my ebooks! It is there that you can savor the full flavor of my kinky mind.




Every day, people from all over the world visit this blog. In some of your countries, there are Amazon online stores. To show your support and enjoyment of my blog writing and picture editing, if you read English and enjoy female domination fiction, try an ebook! (Unfortunately, there are no translations yet.) Buy one ebook…you might end up buying and enjoying them all! You can sample them for free on Amazon before purchase.




Hot, clever stories mostly in the femdom genre, with lots of sexy dialogue and detailed descriptions that will linger in your mind and you’ll return to time and again.




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I have ten erotica ebooks up, plus my latest, a 249-page noir suspense novel (not erotica) about a stripper and her older boyfriend. That’s eleven ebooks.

In the tradition of the 50s noir paperbacks and films!

In the tradition of the 50s noir paperbacks and films!

Each book costs $2.99 (or the equivalent in your country). That is less than the price of the average fast food hamburger. You can read the books on Kindles or phones or computers or laptops or other mobile devices.

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After you read the books–let me and your fellow readers know your opinion! Please leave a few lines of review on Amazon, or on Twitter. Start a conversation so I can reach more readers.


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This blog in itself is like a book, filled with thoughts and pictures and articles. Please leave me some comments here too! I don’t write to entertain myself (although I do find my own work entertaining), but primarily to reach other people.


If you enjoy the work of femdom artists like Sardax, who has illustrated a number of my Leg Show stories–or Eric Stanton, or Namio Harukawa, or Gene Bilbrew–or femdom clips by many of the outstanding dominatrices found on Twitter, like AstroDomina whose work I reviewed in a recent blog post–you’ll enjoy my vivid fictional world of…

Ladies in charge and the men who are in awe of them!

For links to the many Amazon stories, click to this post and scroll down. Thanks, and enjoy!



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The sexy story’s the thing…

Before the picture, there was the story. Before cavemen learned to draw on walls, they conveyed their adventures to their fellows with sounds and gestures, adding up to stories.

A good story draws people in, igniting the imagination, enflaming the libido, stirring the courage, and creating the desire for pleasurable experience, whether real or vicarious.

Stories draw people in now as well, even in our age of explicit video Internet porn.

A story doesn’t take the place of videos or photos, but acts much like the soundtrack of a movie, spurring deeper lasting connection between the visuals and the audience.

Stories, however brief, linger and act as the glue which binds images and individuals.

A single word can evoke a richer, more lasting story. Something that the mind and libido return to, time and again. Would this title, which I wrote for a very much adults-only video scene on the DDF Network, be as catchy or evocative without the word “Midnight”? And it suits the situation perfectly. Check out the link to see what I mean.

I'm not saying I'm Shakespeare, but it was an effective word choice. ;)

I’m not saying I’m Shakespeare, but it was an effective word choice. ;)


The story’s the thing, that gives pictures that extra zing!


Although I made the screencap, the image is used by courtesy and is © 2015 DDF

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Posted by on August 12, 2015 in adult websites, Erotica


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The Awesome Allure of AstroDomina

I came across this the other day on Twitter and couldn’t resist ordering the video:

Believe me, friends, it took willpower not to email her with an instant declaration of my submission!

Believe me, friends, it took willpower not to email her with an instant declaration of my submission!


“Wanna be my slave?” asks the popular AstroDomina in her tweet. “Sure!” says my libido, wagging its submissive tail. She’s so gorgeous and breezily dominant in the way I find most attractive. Also, I’m always so struck by how she would be perfect casting in the role of the dominatrix in a video version of my LEARNING TO BE CRUEL ebook series on Kindle and available at Amazon worldwide. The shopgirl who originally inspired the domme looked much the same physically, and the character of Miss Meirong, as I first wrote her back in early June 2011, has the same type of intelligently kinky playfulness, spiced with luscious evil, that AstroDomina exhibits online and in her videos.

The first appearance of Miss Meirong: she forces her admirer to eat a hamburger like a dog.

The first appearance of Miss Meirong: she forces her admirer to eat a hamburger like a dog.

In this sequel, Miss Meirong has her slave do gross things with his unruly member while in a bookstore!

In this sequel, Miss Meirong has her slave do gross things with his unruly member while in a bookstore!

In “Slave Training: Dinner Is Served,” AstroDomina decides to feed her lucky slave. At first she is alone on her throne in the dungeon, dressed in latex and boots, as she chews and then spits a banana, gummy bears, and a Pop Tart into the slave’s “Man” bowl, and then drenches the mixture with chocolate syrup.

She has the blindfolded, gagged slave brought in to kneel before her. After the blindfold and panty-and-duct tape gag are removed, she scoops out some of the gross concoction and feeds him a little bit of it like a patient but condescending mommy.

Then she upturns the bowl and, after binding his arms behind him, has the helpless but awestruck slave eat his gunky meal off the floor while she keeps his face pressed down with the sole of her boot.

Although in real life the idea of feasting off a floor is my notion of a most repellent repast, in a femdom clip it is very exciting to see this gorgeous Asian mistress express such domineering cruelty with a pitch-perfect TONE of roleplay virtuosity. In these screencaps I made, observe the play of emotions on her face. Emotions create the tone.


Indeed, tone has a lot to do with the success of clips–the wrong word, a too-harsh inflection, and a femdom clip can go from a thrilling kinky game between men and women into the realm of emotional massacre. Instead, AstroDomina skillfully moves through a range of moods as she deals with her slave. And there are touches of humor too where the basic absurdity of the situation inevitably amuses both mistress and slave. AstroDomina looks like a lot of fun to do a scene with.

The video is straightforward with masterful visual shorthand. For example, because the slave is older, paunchy, and utterly ordinary looking, with a soft belly and butt, we instantly are meant to understand that his place in the natural erotic hierarchy would be BELOW such an alluring creature as AstroDomina. We don’t need any long backstory or dialogue to comprehend this.

In a short story, of course, it might be interesting to read what lead this gentleman to his current state of submission!

After his “meal” he is left, naturally, with the duty of cleaning up any residue from the dungeon floor, as well as washing the dish, while AstroDomina haughtily strides out.

If you’d like to contemplate for yourself more of AstroDomina’s scenarios, check her out on Twitter @AstroDomina or at her Clips4Sale store, and be lead into her cosmos of domination as I have been through this “Slave Training: Dinner Is Served.” If you can, tell her Irv O. Neil sent you. But be aware that the normal state of daily life can feel awfully dull after exposure to AstroDomina!!

So let’s see now…what clip will I order next?



Although I personally made the screencaps to illustrate my analysis, all the images of AstroDomina and her slave from “Slave Training: Dinner Is Served” are @2015 AstroDomina.


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