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Dominatrices and the New York City tabloids…

Every once in awhile, it seems to me, the New York City tabloids either run a review of a memoir by a ex-dominatrix about her career, or an interview with a currently working mistress about her recent activities, philosophy, and slaves.

For example, on Sunday, April 2, 2017, the New York Daily News ran this spread:

It’s Sherryl Connelly’s preview of Jenny Nordbak’s new memoir, entitled The Scarlett Letters.

You can find the full text of the article with larger pictures here. It tells of Jenny, aka “Mistress Scarlett,” and her apprenticeship, evolution, and success in the BDSM world, with the goal of excelling as a professional switch, both domme and sub, in a Los Angeles dungeon; and how she sometimes had scenes with the likes of Hollywood stars.

However, at this stage of the game in our culture, the fact that women choose to whip and abuse men for money is not news. It has been reported on so many times as to have become mundane, although obviously still interesting. It is one profitable aspect of the “women getting even with men” or “women turning the tables on men” industry.

So if women dominating dudes for dough is an old story, perhaps someday the tabloids will take the time and interest to look at the other side of the coin, getting the perspectives of the men who crave such punishment, and what they think of themselves and of the women who dish it out‚ÄĒbefore those ladies put aside their riding crops for keyboards to write yet another addition to the ever-growing shelf of “dommemoirs,” if I may coin a term with two words that visually mesh so well.

As a starting point, writers of these future tabloid (or broadsheet or website) articles about submissive men might take a look at femdom erotica written by men: specifically, the horny yet thoughtful variety of sex stories which not only describe male submission to dominant women, but also examine the feelings and motivations that go along with the experience. If I may be so immodest ūüėČ ,¬† my own femdom fiction is a good place to start, readily available in Kindle ebooks at Amazon here! ūüôā

My most recent ebook as of this writing!

 

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The Awesome Allure of AstroDomina

I came across this the other day on Twitter and couldn’t resist ordering the video:

Believe me, friends, it took willpower not to email her with an instant declaration of my submission!

Believe me, friends, it took willpower not to email her with an instant declaration of my submission!

 

“Wanna be my slave?” asks the popular AstroDomina in her tweet. “Sure!” says my libido, wagging its submissive tail. She’s so gorgeous and breezily¬†dominant in the way I find most attractive. Also,¬†I’m always so struck by¬†how she would be perfect casting in the role¬†of the dominatrix in a video version of¬†my LEARNING TO BE CRUEL ebook series on Kindle and available at Amazon worldwide.¬†The shopgirl who originally inspired the domme¬†looked much the same physically, and the character of Miss Meirong, as I first wrote her¬†back in early June 2011, has the same type¬†of intelligently¬†kinky¬†playfulness, spiced with luscious evil, that AstroDomina exhibits online and in her videos.

The first appearance of Miss Meirong: she forces her admirer to eat a hamburger like a dog.

The first appearance of Miss Meirong: she forces her admirer to eat a hamburger like a dog.

In this sequel, Miss Meirong has her slave do gross things with his unruly member while in a bookstore!

In this sequel, Miss Meirong has her slave do gross things with his unruly member while in a bookstore!

In “Slave Training: Dinner Is Served,”¬†AstroDomina decides to feed her lucky slave. At first she is alone on her throne in the dungeon, dressed in latex and boots, as she chews and then spits a banana, gummy bears, and a Pop Tart¬†into the slave’s “Man” bowl, and then drenches the mixture with chocolate syrup.

She has the blindfolded, gagged slave brought in to kneel before her. After the blindfold and panty-and-duct tape gag are removed, she scoops out some of the gross concoction and feeds him a little bit of it like a patient but condescending mommy.

Then she upturns the bowl and, after binding his arms behind him, has the helpless but awestruck slave eat his gunky meal off the floor while she keeps his face pressed down with the sole of her boot.

Although in real life the idea of feasting off a floor is my notion of a most repellent repast, in a femdom clip it is very exciting to see this gorgeous Asian mistress express such domineering cruelty with a pitch-perfect TONE of roleplay virtuosity. In these screencaps I made, observe the play of emotions on her face. Emotions create the tone.

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Indeed,¬†tone has a lot to do with the success of clips–the wrong word, a too-harsh inflection, and a femdom clip can¬†go from a thrilling kinky game between men and women into the realm of emotional massacre. Instead, AstroDomina skillfully moves through a range of moods as she deals with her slave. And¬†there are touches of humor too¬†where the basic absurdity of the situation inevitably amuses both mistress and slave. AstroDomina looks like a lot of fun to do a scene with.

The video is straightforward with masterful visual shorthand. For example, because the slave is older, paunchy, and utterly ordinary looking, with a soft belly and butt, we instantly are meant to understand that his place in the natural erotic hierarchy would be BELOW such an alluring creature as AstroDomina. We don’t need any long backstory or dialogue to comprehend¬†this.

In a short story, of course, it might be interesting to read what lead this gentleman to his current state of submission!

After his “meal” he is left, naturally, with the duty of cleaning up any¬†residue from the dungeon floor, as well as washing the dish, while¬†AstroDomina haughtily strides out.

If you’d like to contemplate for yourself more of AstroDomina’s¬†scenarios, check her out on Twitter @AstroDomina or at her Clips4Sale store, and be lead into her cosmos of domination¬†as¬†I have been through this “Slave Training: Dinner Is Served.”¬†If you can, tell her Irv O. Neil sent you. But be aware that¬†the normal state of¬†daily life¬†can feel awfully dull after exposure to AstroDomina!!

So let’s see now…what clip will¬†I¬†order next?

 

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Although I personally made the screencaps to illustrate my analysis, all the images of AstroDomina and her slave from “Slave Training: Dinner Is Served” are ¬©2015 AstroDomina.

 

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